- rapid pulse
- breathlessness
- trembling
- sweaty palms
- dry mouth
- chests pains
- digestive problems (nausea/diarroea)
- los of appetite
- headache
- sleeplessness
- stomach ache
Emotional and Behavioural Effects
- feeling of helplessness
- difficulty with making decisions
- lack of self-confidence
- difficulty concentrating
- panic attacks
- obsessive behaviour
Worry Breaker 3
LEARN TO TRUST
When you don't trust yourself to fulfill the demands of life, you will worry. When you don't trust others to help you, you worry more. Jane* found out the hard way.
After being promoted, she was anxious to let her bosses see that they had made the right decision. She pushed herself to te limit for thre months until her body caved in with panic attack. In hospital, as Jane freted about her work deadlines, her sister commented how unfair her bosses were for promoting her to such a demanding position without providing her with a team to share the load.
"That comment was a slap in my face," Lisa* remembered. "I suddenly realized that i did have a team. I just didn't trust them enough to delegate the work. So while they put up their feet in the office, I was worrying about performing al their responsibilities myself. I told myself that when i was back, i would start trusting them to do what they did best. It was difficult, but worth it.
Worry Breaker 4
POSTPONE YOUR WORRIES
This gimmick, also called Rearranging Your Mental Furniture, involves 'delaying' your worries for a later time. Whenever you feel a worry coming on, jot it down in a 'Worry Notebook' and tell yourself you will forget it for now and return to it later.
This deceptively simple technique is effective because your mind is 'fooled' into thinking you haven't given up worrying. Meanwhile, you lose the habit of worrying in the present moment. Eventually, you'll simply forget your original worries!
Should You Be Worried?
Aren't sure whether your worrying is excessive? Here's a snap test: answering 'yes' to even one questions means it is.
- You worry about 'something bad' happening in the future.
- You worry someone or something will br hurt or harmed.
- You believe that if you just worry hard enough, somehow you'll keep bad things from happening.
- You believe that if you don't worry, it would mean you don't really care.
Worry Breaker 5
BECOME DETACHED
Worrying often stems from an attachment to a particular or specific outcome. When you want things to happen in specific ways in order to feel hapy and satisfied, you set yourself up for disappointment. In other words,'bad things' wil hapen to you more frequently, and you'll be fuelling your body to worry more intensely.
Karen* swears her youthful loks are the result of her practising detachments. She hardly worries because she knows that if she takes care of the present, the future will take care of itself.
"The only thing that is important is what I'm doing this very minute,"she said. "No thinking about the outcome allows me to focus and give my best. When i know I've done that, I' not affected by the outcome, no matter what it is."
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